Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are a few proven ways
that can tell you if he is interested in you. While it’s difficult to read body
language at times, it’s possible if you know where to start. Here are 10 ways
that men unconsciously and even consciously let you know that they like you.
Take a look, see what you see and maybe you will find your love right now.
#1 The Lovely Smile
A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to
flirting, it’s one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice
that he is smiling at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to
approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage
by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is
nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate
a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get
is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for guys.
#2 Shy Blush
Perhaps you know how it’s difficult to flirt with shy guys, but it doesn’t mean
that you should avoid such type of man. If you notice that a guy blushes around
you, this is one of the most obvious signs he is trying to flirt with you.
However, not only do shy guys blush, any guy can actually blush when he sees a
beautiful girl. Blushing is a bodily function that we can’t control and if he
blushes around you, he certainly likes you.
#3 The Killer Eye contact
This sign is a little bit tricky, but surely worth paying attention to.
Eye contact is important during communication and we need to
use this form of body language as often as we can. Depending on how long a man
holds an eye contact with you, you can find out whether or not he likes you. If
he holds an eye contact with you for longer than an average person, it might be
a sign he is interested in you. We all make an eye contact when flirting, right?
It’s the same for guys. If a guy holds a short eye contact, he might also flirt
with you, he is just a bit shy.
Sometimes men mirror woman’s actions without even knowing it.
Mirroring is another sign he is flirting with you. This ranges
from mirroring blink rates to mirroring manner of speaking. For instance, you
are laughing and he is laughing as well. The thing is, it’s natural for us to
mirror something we love. Besides, a lot of singles dating websites advise guys
to use mirroring technique when flirting with girls, maybe your crush does this too.
#5. Hands on hips
If he stands with his hands on the hips or places the thumbs in the belt loops,
he might be interested in you. This way, he is trying to show you he is a
confident man and simply true macho. I personally don’t like when guys use this
way while flirting with girls, but still it’s one of the signs he is flirting with you.
#6. A flirting touch
If your crush touches you, it’s definitely a sign he likes you. But, when a guy
touches you accidentally, this is absolutely another sign to watch for. It means
the guy is trying to get your attention and find any excuse to continue
conversation with you. Do you like that guy? If yes, flirt back! Most girls
ignore this important sign, but you shouldn’t do it. After all, he might be your hubby!
#7. Head Tilts
The way a man tilts his head can also signify that he likes you. If he tilts the
head towards you, this means he’s listening attentively to each word you say.
This also means he’s really attuned to what you are talking about and he’s
really interested in conversation with you. I love that amazing feeling when a
man is listening to me. I always appreciate it, even if I’m not interested in
#8. Dilated pupils
Sometimes our eyes give us away when we don’t want them to. When we are
attracted to someone or something our pupils dilate and they become larger. When
we don’t like someone or something, our pupils contract. If you notice that the
eyes of the guy keep dilating, it’s one of the most obvious signs he adores you
and is highly interested in you.
#9. Raised eyebrows
You crush may hide his eyes when he is around you because he likes you. He can
keep his eyebrows a little bit raised as well. If his eyes are widened and his
eyebrows remain raised while you’re talking, this is definite sign he is
flirting with you. Watch for it and you’ll surely see it!
Do you fidget when you are around the guy you like? I’m pretty sure you do
and it’s okay. You are just nervous and it’s actually a good nervous. It’s all
about expectation since you don’t know whether or not he is interested in you.
If you see him fidgeting, this is because he’s interested in you and he is a bit
nervous to start conversation with you.
Now that you’re aware of the signs he is flirting with you, what are you
waiting for? Start flirting back and maybe you will have a nice date tonight. Do
you know any other signs of flirting that I should have added to this list?